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Title: My Wife Hides her Relationships with two Divorced Men
Post by: godsmack on 19. April 2019., 20:53:55
My wife joined a YMCA workout group two years ago and developed a close relationship with two divorced men. They are on frequent group chats, social media and messaging that I can’t see.

About a year ago she told me she was going to drop off a meal to one of the men after his house was damaged by a car. This turned out to be a lie because she and her best female friend went to his house and had dinner and drinks with the two divorced men.

A second, more recent incident was when she was doing some interior design work for one of the men, was at his house for about an hour and then he took her for lunch and drinks at his country club in the afternoon. She told me to my face that it never happened, but I have proof that it did.

She says I am paranoid. I feel stupid. Am I?
Title: Re: My Wife Hides her Relationships with two Divorced Men
Post by: godsmack on 20. April 2019., 20:50:10
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Title: Re: My Wife Hides her Relationships with two Divorced Men
Post by: Cherry99 on 25. April 2019., 12:55:48
You definitely have something going on here. The fact she lied to cover up the relationship is a huge red flag.
Let me be honest. I would be entirely unsurprised if she was in an affair with either or both men. The girlfriend may even be screwing around with one while she dates the other. They could also have a much darker sexual group type thing going on.
Stop playing nice guy. These men are a problem. The fact is she doesn’t care what you think, which would be enough for me to start preping for divorce.
If you want answers to start being sneaky. Google and research how to catch an affair https://truthprivateinvestigators.com.au/contact/private-investigators-brisbane/ Find your evidence then come down on her and them like a bag of hammers.
If you simply don’t want to be treated like garbage and go through years of pain and hoping to recover from a betrayal, dump her now, move on. It’s the easiest way to heal.
Again I highly doubt there isn’t so.ething very very fishy going on. Don’t stick your head in the sand. Don’t be a little boy being led by the nose. Stand up for yourself. Women respect the strong even of they might get angry for a bit.
Most women will smile and pat a weak man on the head while completely disposing of him.
Don’t be a tool.